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ROOT FOR THE BETTER PLAYER

tennisTime after time after time after time, I hear people make the comment "why are American players not doing well in professional tennis?"

My answer is simple: With the plethora of talent from so many countries around the world, who cares where a person is from?

Too often in sports, especially in tennis, I get incredibly bored with hearing the media focus on a person's so-called origins, such as this is the first woman, the first African American, the first person from this country.  It seems more attention is directed toward gender and nationality than talent, which is wrong.  I mean, isn't "talent" why we are watching these events?  We want to see the best match possible, and whether a woman goes three sets in a match or a man goes five sets, we love them all the more for giving us our money's worth.

For example, when the Williams sisters first came on the scene, many documentaries on TV highlighted the fact that, apart from Grand Slam champion Althea Gibson and a few other African American stars that followed, very few African Americans have broken the "white barrier" in tennis.  I read that Serena Williams recently went to Africa and not only enjoyed her visit, but felt embraced by the country and its people.  I felt the same way when I went to Africa.  Yet, if you were to ask Serena Williams what nationality she is, she would say American.   Why does the attention have to be put on her color instead of her amazing talent on the tennis court?  In Martin Luther King, Junior's speech, "I Have a Dream," he said that "I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character."

This profound statement supports what I am saying here:

People should be judged by their talent, not where they are from, their gender, or their religion.

Here are just a few of the many tennis players who were born in one place but live in another:. Baghdatis, a gentleman from Limassol, which is considered the heart of "Greek" Cyprus, was born in Limassol but moved to Paris when he was fourteen.  The same with Maria Sharapova, who was born in Siberia but was raised in United States.  Martina Hingis was born in Czechoslovakia, which is now Slovakia, but was raised in Switzerland.  Then there are the people who have dual citizenship, such as tennis player Mary Pierce.  Her mother was French Canadian.  Mary has dual citizenship, French and American.  She was born and raised in the USA, but decided to declare her citizenship status as French.

My point is that it is irrelevant where a person is from because most athletes, unless they are playing for a team in a sport or playing in the Olympics, are not playing and performing for the sake of their country.  Professional athletes play their sports because it is their career and they have a family to support.  Their country of origin is indeed important to them, but they are competing in the name of fame and money and for wanting to be the best at what they do.

I'll never forget the response when a relative of world champion sprinter Ben Johnson was asked how Ben felt about letting his country down because he took performance-enhancing drugs.  The response was, "Don't be stupid, he was running for himself, not his country." Athletes don't care what country they are from; the bottom line is that they want to win.

I'm often fascinated by people's allegiance to their countries or their state's football, soccer, basketball, or baseball teams.  If you know the players well and you follow their games, I can see why you would have an allegiance to them.  Yet today the players don't have any allegiance to any team.  Sure, they might try or want to stay with one particular team, but time and again, you see players traded to the teams of their biggest archrivals. Personally, I'd rather see a good game between two teams, even if it means that my home team loses.  If they lose, they probably didn't play well and hopefully will do better the next time.  Why not enjoy the players for the reason they are out there to play their best? Instead, many fans want to see their home team succeed and win at any cost.  What does this prove?  Doesn't the better player or team deserve to win and move ahead?  Isn't this what we expect in life?  Would we want someone at work getting more support from his or her boss just because they are from the same town?


baseballMany times, I have taken a subway to a NY Yankees/Mets game.  Here are two NY teams that we have every right to be proud of, yet as you can guess people are not only taking sides but getting hostile about it.  I've seen many ugly fights break out because of someone taunting someone else that their team is better than the other person's.  WHO CARES! The whole situation is so irrational that you begin to believe that people are just fighting for the sake of fighting! 

Some people might find this difficult to believe, but while they are fighting in the name of their team, most sport champions are fighting to just be their best selves on the playing field and off the field as well, regardless of whether they are male or female or where they are from (you'd be shocked at how many sports "rivals" from opposing teams are actually quite friendly with each other away from the field).

All in all, I think people enjoy being able to express themselves and their culture and being respected for their differences in the way they look, dress, or act.  This is how they want to make their mark.  Not by being identified by something they have no control over.

In the twenty-first century, we are a world that is a conglomeration of many cultures.  Instead of dividing people by race, religion, gender, and nationality, why not recognize the commonalities in people instead of the differences?  This new level of awareness will transcend limited thinking not only in sports, but at work and in life in general.  More than ever, we are a small world.  You can play games on your computer in an instant with anyone around the world.  You can turn on your computer or TV and hear news and information from around the world.  Phone calls around the world have never been easier and more accessible.  Products you buy are not necessarily from your country or from one country.  A Japanese car can have a body made in Japan, but the parts in the car are made in United States.

Indeed, it is a small world, and we all possess the potential to bring out the best in each other and unite as a whole. Such awareness is needed to live together harmoniously and for our planet's evolution as a whole.  It would be a wonderful gift to yourself, as well as to others, to be working to be your best self for you but also knowing that indirectly your talents and work at helping not so much your country as helping the world at large.

So the next time you want to root for people in politics and sports just because you think you have something in common with them such as gender, religion, or where they are from, why not think again?  By being open to others who are foreign, we are creating harmony for ourselves and those around us. In a small but steady way, we are helping to create world peace.

I'm not saying that you should never root for your countrymen or countrywomen; I'm just saying don't fall into the media hype that you support only your country.  This is not war.  tennisThis is about athletes performing their best, and we the spectators are enjoying their hard-earned talents regardless of where they are from.

I think with this attitude you will be favorably satisfied that tennis is great and probably the best it has ever been with the depth of talent that exists in the men's and women's game.  So appreciate it and enjoy it regardless of whether there are ten Americans in the top-ten world rankings or just one.




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